Flowers and Plants in Azerbaijan, and an old man still jogs

Azerbaijanis love flowers. If you stop to admire flowers, the owner will insist on cutting some flowers for you. When we go visiting, often I will come home with flowers that the host has given me. Flowers are given to new mothers, on International Women’s Day, graduation, birthdays, visits, house warming, competitions, sporting events and are placed at memorials and on graves. In the spring, flowers start appearing everywhere. In front of most schools are garden areas where flowers are planted and cared for by students and the maintenance staff. Most houses and many apartment buildings have flowers planted at the entrances. The parks in Shirvan are full of roses, lilies, petunias, daisies and cannas.
The Holly Hocks in the picture are planted in front of our apartment building entrance. Many colors of Holly Hocks (white, shades of pink, red, shades of purple) are planted all over town. The roses I am sitting in front of are planted in a median on a wide street but there are also roses in the parks, at houses and public buildings. There is every color of rose imaginable – from purplish blue to orange. One gas station has a beautiful garden of roses. Multi-color pansies are planted in the 8-point-star planters in the parks. These pansies bloom most of the year. There are also petunias in several colors (solid or striped) all over town. Our area of the country can get very dry but great care is taken to water these flowers.
We have been enjoying strawberries during the last of May and into June. They will not last much longer so while they are available people really eat them and make jams for later. At first they were expensive, but everyone told us to wait until they were about one manet a kilo and then buy. Now cherries are in the market. There are white, red and dark red varieties. The white are the sweetest. We have bought cherries and made a wonderful cherry sauce to put on ice cream or cake. Now the pomegranate trees are blooming. I had never seen a pomegranate tree. The bloom is a small, very bright red flower and the fruit forms at the base of the flower (see picture). The tree is small and bush like. They can grow wild in pastures, fields or around houses. Pomegranates are peeled and eaten or made into a juice. Many houses have grape arbors in the front courtyard. Tables and chairs are put under these arbors and family and friends will sit out in the evening under the arbor. These grape vines must be severely pruned each year or they can get out of control. At this time the arbors are full of leaves and the beginning of grape clusters. Many vegetables are now coming to market – green onions, eggplant, runner beans (green beans), tomatoes, cucumbers, and new potatoes. I have several people who have told me how to cook different vegetables. It seems that Azs have just so many ways they cook a vegetable, fruit, meat, bread and that is it. They teach their daughters how to cook these before they are married. Recipes are not written down but passed along by demonstration and verbally. There are no measuring cups of spoons used in AZ. Girls practice and watch mother/grandmother to know how much of an ingredient to use. All cooking is done from scratch. There are very few prepared foods in the markets or bazaar. (If you find prepared food, it is expensive.) Food preparation takes much time and effort. During the winter months vegetables are brought in fresh from Iran (to the south) but the prices are higher and many families can not afford to buy vegetables out of season.

Now from Denney: Summer is here, but the weather is not too bad yet. Everyone says it will get close to 110 sometime in July or August. We have had a week or so in the 90’s, but now 80’s for awhile. Everything is a little more laid back. We plan to do some traveling in July.
Linda wrote about plants, I will talk about an old man jogging. I get lots of looks, stares, handshakes, “salam” (hello), “ala” (excellent), thumbs up, and eye avoidance. I try to run 5 days each week. I go between 35 and 45 minutes during the work week and an hour to an hour and a half on Saturday and/or Sunday. I run in the morning and my best responders are the taxi drivers who now all know me by sight.
I was buying some summer shoes in the bazaar and three store owners mentioned my running. Linda, Bill, Dorothy, and I got a tour of the boxing and wrestling building because the coach knew about my jogging. It has opened many conversations. It is the fact that I’m old that gets acceptance.
One highlight of my jogging was a particular morning there were 4 men drinking tea in a park by the Central Hospital, and one shouted “America Yaxshi” (America is good), and I yelled backed “Azerbaijan Yaxshi!” Thumbs up all around was next in order.
I run in long baggy nylon pants and tee shirts – very hot this time of the year. Shorts are not worn by men under any conditions. People would gossip and say I am out in my underwear.

Azerbaijanis love flowers. If you stop to admire flowers, the owner will insist on cutting some flowers for you. When we go visiting, often I will come home with flowers that the host has given me. Flowers are given to new mothers, on International Women’s Day, graduation, birthdays, visits, house warming, competitions, sporting events and are placed at memorials and on graves. In the spring, flowers start appearing everywhere. In front of most schools are garden areas where flowers are planted and cared for by students and the maintenance staff. Most houses and many apartment buildings have flowers planted at the entrances. The parks in Shirvan are full of roses, lilies, petunias, daisies and cannas.
The Holly Hocks in the picture are planted in front of our apartment building entrance. Many colors of Holly Hocks (white, shades of pink, red, shades of purple) are planted all over town. The roses I am sitting in front of are planted in a median on a wide street but there are also roses in the parks, at houses and public buildings. There is every color of rose imaginable – from purplish blue to orange. One gas station has a beautiful garden of roses. Multi-color pansies are planted in the 8-point-star planters in the parks. These pansies bloom most of the year. There are also petunias in several colors (solid or striped) all over town. Our area of the country can get very dry but great care is taken to water these flowers.
We have been enjoying strawberries during the last of May and into June. They will not last much longer so while they are available people really eat them and make jams for later. At first they were expensive, but everyone told us to wait until they were about one manet a kilo and then buy. Now cherries are in the market. There are white, red and dark red varieties. The white are the sweetest. We have bought cherries and made a wonderful cherry sauce to put on ice cream or cake. Now the pomegranate trees are blooming. I had never seen a pomegranate tree. The bloom is a small, very bright red flower and the fruit forms at the base of the flower (see picture). The tree is small and bush like. They can grow wild in pastures, fields or around houses. Pomegranates are peeled and eaten or made into a juice. Many houses have grape arbors in the front courtyard. Tables and chairs are put under these arbors and family and friends will sit out in the evening under the arbor. These grape vines must be severely pruned each year or they can get out of control. At this time the arbors are full of leaves and the beginning of grape clusters. Many vegetables are now coming to market – green onions, eggplant, runner beans (green beans), tomatoes, cucumbers, and new potatoes. I have several people who have told me how to cook different vegetables. It seems that Azs have just so many ways they cook a vegetable, fruit, meat, bread and that is it. They teach their daughters how to cook these before they are married. Recipes are not written down but passed along by demonstration and verbally. There are no measuring cups of spoons used in AZ. Girls practice and watch mother/grandmother to know how much of an ingredient to use. All cooking is done from scratch. There are very few prepared foods in the markets or bazaar. (If you find prepared food, it is expensive.) Food preparation takes much time and effort. During the winter months vegetables are brought in fresh from Iran (to the south) but the prices are higher and many families can not afford to buy vegetables out of season.

Now from Denney: Summer is here, but the weather is not too bad yet. Everyone says it will get close to 110 sometime in July or August. We have had a week or so in the 90’s, but now 80’s for awhile. Everything is a little more laid back. We plan to do some traveling in July.
Linda wrote about plants, I will talk about an old man jogging. I get lots of looks, stares, handshakes, “salam” (hello), “ala” (excellent), thumbs up, and eye avoidance. I try to run 5 days each week. I go between 35 and 45 minutes during the work week and an hour to an hour and a half on Saturday and/or Sunday. I run in the morning and my best responders are the taxi drivers who now all know me by sight.
I was buying some summer shoes in the bazaar and three store owners mentioned my running. Linda, Bill, Dorothy, and I got a tour of the boxing and wrestling building because the coach knew about my jogging. It has opened many conversations. It is the fact that I’m old that gets acceptance.
One highlight of my jogging was a particular morning there were 4 men drinking tea in a park by the Central Hospital, and one shouted “America Yaxshi” (America is good), and I yelled backed “Azerbaijan Yaxshi!” Thumbs up all around was next in order.
I run in long baggy nylon pants and tee shirts – very hot this time of the year. Shorts are not worn by men under any conditions. People would gossip and say I am out in my underwear.

Water Treatment

I selected assorted pictures that I thought were interesting. One of my favorite pictures is of the grandmother dancing at the wedding. The variety of dress and ages are demonstrated in the women dancing at a wedding. The little boy and the cow needs no explanation, but just to say I took this picture while getting fresh air at a wedding. The children at Linda’s Last Bell ceremony are dressed in the very best, and can you tell what the children in yellow and blue are doing? Answer – the Chicken Dance! I guess the Chicken Dance is popular throughout the world.

The rest of this blog has to do with our daily schedules. During the school year Linda taught 4 days each week with Monday as an off day. During Linda’s off day she did lesson preparations, cleaned, and all the household chores. On Wednesday’s and Friday’s Linda had Conversation Clubs and worked through lunch.
Now it is the summer and school will resume in September. Linda still has 2 conversation clubs. She combined her 8th and 9th graders into 1 club and then began another club for 5th and 6th graders. She has begun a Conversation Club for adults on Thursday evenings. Participants are adults wanting to improve their speaking skills. There is an engineer, a power plant worker, library staff, retired English teacher, an unemployed college graduate, a businessman who works with TIENS (a Chinese health products company which operates like Amway with distributors), and she hopes more in the future. It will be an interesting group. If it is beneficial she may continue something like it in the fall.
Denney goes to the library Monday – Friday from 09:30 – 12:30 and 2:30 – 5:30. Denney does Conversation Clubs, meets people, and helps where he can with the computers.
When we are in Baku with the Peace Corps business it requires 4-5 hours travel each way. The Peace Corps allows us a travel day to Baku, then our Peace Corps business, and a travel day back to Shirvan. It is when we are in Baku that Linda gets her haircut. We can go to Baku for personal business, but usually make it in one day, starting out early, returning that evening. The travel is by van to Baku, and then a Baku city line bus to the areas of the city. We have also begun to use the Metro (subway). The Metro is very cheap – 5 cents a ride, fast, crowded, and requires paying close attention to the stops.
We recently had our first overnight guests, our dear friends and co-volunteers, Bill and Dorothy Colcord. They serve in Barda. They are also retired and from Boston, MA. Bill and Dorothy have very good water in Barda, and he suggested I write about how we handle the water situation here.
On water days, Denney’s first hour after awaking is spent refilling a 30-gallon plastic trashcan. The trashcan is the holding unit and the silt settles. The water is then drawn off the top and placed into buckets for flushing and personal washing. The sink has a small half-bucket like metal container with a spicket for washing hands on non-water days. On water days, we use the faucet in the tub. There are 2 plastic buckets with lids in the kitchen. Denney pours the water slowly into a 5-gallon bucket with spicket that sits on a non-working burner of the stove with the spicket over the sink for water on non-water days. The water in the 2 plastic buckets is then poured slowly into the big bucket and only the settled water is used. The plastic buckets are rinsed so that a layer of silt is removed, and then refilled for settling.
Then Denney tackles the drinking water. Two pots are filled and boiled before the water is transferred to our water filters, then refilled and boiled and added as needed to the water filters. Each water filter unit holds about 2 gallons of water. We use only boiled and filtered water for cooking, drinking, and brushing our teeth. Hopefully at the end of a water day, the filters are full, and we have 4 liters of plastic bottles filled and in the fridge, along with a reserve 12 liter plastic bottle in the kitchen for emergencies. All that water is boiled and filtered.
On water-days Linda takes at least a half-day doing the laundry. First, hot water is needed to dissolve the powder detergent, and clothes are soaked. Later settled water is used to rinse. All wash and rinse water is used for flushing the toilet after the clothes are connected to the solar clothes dryer outside our balcony window. Linda must use a plastic washtub placed in the bathtub and leans over kneeling on the tile floor. Our thanks to Frank Saunders who sent Linda kneepads, which have made the laundry not nearly as painful for Linda.
When washing dishes on water-days, hot water comes from our heater, dishes are rinsed in tap water, but on non-water days, water is heated and rinsed in settled water from the big bucket. All used dishwashing water goes to flushing because the detergents give a better fragrance.
Flushing is accomplished by pouring a gallon or so of water into the bowl and it works most of the time.
I left out all the time for food preparation and hours for shopping.
We feel like we work few hours as compared to the United States, but it takes many more hours to accomplish the daily tasks. Also, we are Volunteers and retired in the U.S. An issue we face is fatigue. As we analyzed it, don’t tell anyone, but we are 60 years old, and every time we go out the door, we are on – that is aware of people watching us. Always responding to every “hello” from a child or adult. Always aware of our behavior, thinking about every thing we do outside our apartment is an emotional drain that is difficult to explain.
Finally, the weekend, and Linda scrubs and dusts the entire apartment even more thoroughly than during the week. Often she gets on her knees and washes the floors with bleach water as well as scrubbing the bathroom down with bleach water. It is a constant battle against the dust. We walk the parks, greet people, visit and talk, sometimes watch a DVD on the computer, and listen to music.
That’s our schedule in a nutshell.

The Last Bell - End of School

First the pictures: The first picture is the entering of the first form students with one of the first form teachers. 2nd picture is the 11th form students entering. 3rd picture is the Azerbaijani flag presentation. 4th picture is the singing of the national anthem and the speakers. 5th picture is the students and teachers dancing.
Last Bell – The Last Bell ceremony is similar to graduation. The 11th form and 9th form classes are honored. There are speeches, younger children perform dances, groups sing, and there are times when the class members get to dance. Parents, relatives and friends attend. It is usually held outdoors because there is no indoor space big enough for all the people. I was one of several speakers. With so many people and little children, it can get to be noisy. Near the end of the ceremony doves are released and fly around and away. There was a balloon drop that went wrong (the balloons got loose too soon and all the little children were running and grabbing balloons). A first form student is paired with an 11th form student. They walk together hand in hand out the school gates at the end of the ceremony. One first form student sits on the shoulders of an 11th form student and rings the school bell as they leave. This is to symbolize the passing of the legacy.
In AZ students must stay in school through the 9th form. After 9th form they can quit school or go on for the 10th & 11th forms. At school #9 we have 5 sections of 9th form but only 2 sections of 10th form. About 60% of students quit school after 9th form. Some of these students who no longer attend the local public school may go into the military school, police school or other programs. Unfortunately, most of the girls that leave school after 9th form will stay at home and help out there until they are married within the next 2-4 years. The finishing 11th form students usually go on to college or university. In AZ, college is a 2-year school similar to a community college in America. There is a college here in Shirvan. University is a 4-year school and there are 5 of those in the country.
In the afternoon after the ceremony, Denney, my English teaching counterpart, a Chemistry teacher (class sponsor) and me went to Afag’s (9th form girl) home for a party. We ate outdoors under a large grape arbor with a nice breeze and shade. There were about 20 students from 9B that attended (most of the class was there). The mother, grandmother and aunt had prepared a wonderful dinner. This class has many boys and they ate a lot! After dining, the dancing began. The students had brought CDs and enjoyed dancing. There was a second floor balcony, and the aunt, mother, grandparents watched the activity with enjoyment. Denney and I danced AZ dance and American Swing - the students it that was wonderful! We took pictures and visited with the aunt who is an English teacher at the university in Baku. She was eager to meet us and talk with us.
Later the next week, at English conversation club, Afag had tears in her eyes when she talked about her class and who would not be at school next year. She knew of only one boy and two girls who would return to School #9 and one boy is going to Baku to military school. All the others will be looking for jobs or staying home. Most of these students are 15 years old.
It was interesting to see the Last Bell ceremony, to see all the excitement of the people who attended and to be invited to the after-ceremony party. However, I feel distress that more students do not finish all 11 forms of school, most students do not seem to have plans after leaving the 9th form and that there are so few opportunities for these exiting 15-year olds, especially the girls.

The summer begins a real laid back time. There are no summer sessions at the college and the students return to their villages. Summer employment is not the norm. Students help around the house, go live with relatives in villages and help in the gardens and small farms, or just sleep late and watch television.

I have demonstrated the XO Laptop (One Laptop Per Child) and my counterpart is very excited about the possibilities. It would be quite a project. It is difficult to demonstrate all the capabilities since I don’t have access to wireless internet, and I don’t have a second XO to show the meshing capabilities.

Another project which seems to interest people is operating a Karaoke and music where families and young people could come. Free time is the major issue here. The young boys walk the streets and parks at night. The young girls stay home. Any constructive use of free time is a project.
The weather is getting warmer, and we have purchased 2 small fans. Thanks to everyone for your love and support! However, I am disappointed that no one commented on the toilet seat with the sharks or are they dolphins?

International Museum Day

So, how did you spend May 16, 2009, International Museum Day? Linda, Lela, and I went to the Shirvan History Museum at the invitation of the Director of the Museum. Linda and I have been to the Museum many times with Conversation Clubs and on our own. Lela is a member of one of my Conversation Clubs, and was asked to come with us to interpret.
The pictures are of the children dancing the Yalli. From the wedding pictures you may remember that the Yalli is done holding hands, and the final person holds a handkerchief. The dance is one of unity. There are 3 of the national musical instruments, the galval (tambourine looking drum), the tar (similar to the guitar), and one I can never remember the name. There is a picture of the staff of the Museum with the Director of the Music School, the Museum Director and us.
The celebration consists of information and historical readings, children performing cultural dances, national music, and speeches. Linda and I both were asked to speak. Linda emphasized the reasons we joined the Peace Corps. I emphasized the goals of the Peace Corps and concluded that people ask where we are from. Everyone wants to know if we are Russian or American. I told the audience, “I always want to answer I am from Shirvan because this is my home.”
Shirvan is a relatively new city built during the Soviet Union. Its original name, Ali Bayrami, was the name of the man who brought Communism to Azerbaijan. The city is not historical like Baku, Shamakhi, Sheki, or Ganja. The museum has 3 rooms. The first highlights the power plant and resources here in Shirvan. The second room contains archeological finds of pottery, tools, and clothing. The final room has tools, money, and traditional clothing. After the 3 rooms of the museum is a room dedicated to the former president Heydar Alyiev.
We feel it is always important to attend any public celebration that we can. It helps integrate us into the community. The more people know who we are, the better.

SCHOOL IS OUT Linda’s school ended today with the Last Bell celebration. The Last Bell honors the graduating students and those who just completed the first grade. We will have more information in a later blog with pictures.

So, now that school is finished Linda will be combining here 2 student conversation clubs into one. She will also be conducting conversation clubs for adults at our apartment in the evenings for 10 sessions. One other plan of Linda’s is to conduct activities for the children in our apartment buildings. There are 5 buildings that share a courtyard park where children gather and play every day.

I will continue to work at conversation clubs and have been discussing various possible projects with people here. We hope to take some time and travel to Quba, Azerbaijan, and then to Tiblisi, Georgia. The trips will be with fellow older volunteers. We get to accumulate 2 vacation days for each month of service. So, we hope to have greater information and pictures in the future.

One last bit of disconnected information. When we complete our Peace Corps service in Azerbaijan, I will I have accomplished at least one significant thing. For background, during my conversation clubs we often talk about music. There are times when I take our IPOD and play music for the club. We discuss the meaning of the songs, listen for words, and try to show how listening to music can help their English skills.Second, one of my good friends is named Ibo (short for Ibriham). He walks with me and helps me with language, and I speak English with him. The other day Ibo had me call his cell phone, and I could hear the ring tone – Peter, Paul, and Mary’s Blowin in the Wind. Ibo has memorized the first stanza and chorus. He knows the meaning as well as the tune. Drop by drop we make a lake.

Kitchen and Bathroom

This blog posting is a bit of this and that. First, the pictures are of our apartment before and after of the toilet and stove area. Can you guess which is which? Linda has done a wonderful job of decorating in a light blue, primarily because her choices of the plastic tubs and materials were red, brown, and blue. One of our good friends had picked red, and we wanted to be more unique.
The curtains are all held in place by Velcro. The refrigerator door seal is very bad and splitting, so we have a Velcro latching system. (Note: thanks to all of you who sent Velcro. That is very handy, and we have some left over for future projects.) The refrigerator is on our balcony not in the kitchen. That location is very popular here. But, to answer your question, no there is no electric outlet on the balcony, so the cord runs through a window into the living room and into an outlet. The fridge is small, but we do have ice thanks to ice trays from the U.S. When Linda comes in from a hard day and has a mug full of ice tea (mug which holds 10 ounces, the glasses hold about 4 and are made for hot tea), she feels on top of the world. I would wager she might be the only person with a mug of iced tea in all of Azerbaijan. The fridge is also self-defrosting. That is, when the electricity is out for 6-8 hours, it defrosts.
The toilet pictures are my favorite, of course. My thanks to everyone who volunteered to mail us a seat. I may still request one through the mail. The issue here is not availability, but is quality. Many of the fixtures are cheaply made plastic which break easily. In many homes, schools and public buildings are fixtures that began with cheap plastic components, then the plastic breaks, and the components are never repaired or replaced. However, obviously quality products would be unaffordable. So instead of doing without, there is broken and non-repaired. I have already used Super Glue on the toilet seat and about every other repair we’ve done.
We will show pictures of the bedroom with our mosquito net and walk-in closet – you walk in the bedroom and you’re in our closet, in a future blog.
Now, here are some experiences that have touched our hearts recently. In the Post Office are several windows along a long counter then across the long narrow room is a table and bench for writing. I had purchased an envelope and stamp for the U.S. to the One Laptop Per Child organization. I was mailing a letter from my counterpart, who wanted to share how much the program was needed in her country, and included a letter from myself. As I approached the table I noted a man standing and reading an official looking letter lying on the table and he stood by reading it. While I was writing the addresses on the envelope, a cell phone began to ring. It was the generic ring so I checked and it was not my phone. The ring was coming from the man standing across the table. He motioned with his head towards his right hand pants pocket. It was then I became aware that his arms were prostheses. I reached into his pocket (not something I would ordinarily do), pressed the answer button on his phone, and held it to his ear until he held the phone in place with his shoulder. He completed his call, I took the phone, concluded the call and replaced in his pocket. A nod of the head from each of us, and we went our separate ways.
Holidays are a main topic in the educational system. Linda went from class to class explaining Memorial Day and Mother’s Day. Students made Linda Mother’s Day cards and gave her presents such as an angel figurine, flowers, and a set of canisters for the kitchen.
For our anniversary four of the ladies from the Library bought Linda a pearl rhinestone silver necklace for about 20 AZN, and signed a card. This was from people who don’t make more that 200 AZN a month. People are always extending signs of appreciation and friendship.
We were invited to an International Museum Day celebration at the History Museum on May 16. One young woman from a Conversation Club served as our interpreter. We were asked to speak just a few minutes each. Everyone was so appreciative of the United States caring about Azerbaijan. Words fail me; I can’t express in this blog the feelings we have. We feel frustrated that we cannot do more, and then feel fulfilled at every little expression of friendship and acknowledgement of appreciation for the Peace Corps.

Wedding Pictures

This is the second blog about weddings – “Toy”, and will no doubt be the last. The first wedding blog was Linda’s comments on the one she attended without me. This wedding we both attended. It was for the daughter of one of the men who works at the Central Library, so it was all my coworkers in attendance.
Linda’s wedding was a combined wedding – that is just one for both the bride and groom. This wedding was the first of two such events for the same couple. The Bride’s wedding is given by the family of the bride, and the bride may choose any color she desires for her dress. At the Groom’s wedding, the bride wears the traditional white. Most brides rent their dresses for the day, and the men wear their best suits, maybe even a new suit. Customs change with times and economic conditions, so many more couples are going with a combined wedding rather than the traditional two.
Another interesting custom is that the wedding can cost up to a year’s salary, so everyone contributes to the cost of the wedding. The closer the relationship to the bride and groom’s family, the higher the contribution. There is a cashier by the entrance, and a person can pay anytime during the event. If you are friends – 20 AZN, good friends 30 AZN, close friends 50 AZN, extremely close family, 100 AZN. The average cost of the wedding is about 25 AZN per person, and at this wedding there were about 350 people. A teacher makes 250 AZN per month.
The wedding is eating and dancing and lasts about 4 hours. The men sit on one side, the women at the other. There is alcohol for the men, and none for the women. Really rather boring if you do not speak Azerbaijani well. The highlight for Linda and me was that men and women started dancing together the last 30 minutes or so. Linda and I did a little slow dance, and one swing number. – The first time we’ve danced together since being in Azerbaijan – It was fun.
In the first wedding, Linda did not have our camera, but I took about 40 pictures at the second. Many people would ask me to take their picture even though I didn’t know them, and they would never get a copy.
I used my pictures in my Conversation Clubs (CC) to ask questions about the culture and to get the participants to describe the events in English. I finished by having the CC choose which 5 pictures I would post on the blog. So, the pictures above are of the bride and groom dancing, Linda and I with 2 guests, the bride and groom table, cutting the cake, and the final dance “Yalli” which is done holding hands and moving in a circle to symbolize unity. A picture that one CC included and the others did not was when the Plov (rice) was brought to the couple’s table it is carried by a man in traditional costume and escorted by torch bearers – I thought was an interesting picture also, but the most votes win – the blog pictures were an illustration of democracy in action.
So, my first question to my Conversation Clubs was when is the couple actually a husband and wife. If, God forbid, the bride or groom died between the 2 weddings are they married? The answer is no. There is a legal contract, much like our wedding license and registering the license which when it is signed, they are married. The signing is a big ceremony and often done at the groom’s wedding.
In Azerbaijan a woman cannot legally marry before the age of 18, but in the more conservative villages and cities where the culture is still father dominated, a marriage may be arranged for a daughter as young as 13. When that happens, there are no contracts signed, and the woman may never have legal rites if the husband ever mistreats or divorces her. Basically the laws are in place, but still parts of the country still are guided by a more ancient tradition. I used the opportunity to speak about women’s rights and how important the contract was.
Many of the marriages are still arranged. A boy’s family will ask the girl’s family about marriage and make the commitment. The boy then presents a ring to the girl in a ceremony, and the wedding is some time in the future. So my question was, what if they don’t like each other? Usually the bride and groom know and approve of the wedding. However, the social opportunities are very limited for a man and woman to date or get to know each other. Therefore, many people only socialize with their family members and a marriage between cousins and relatives is quite common.
Azerbaijanis will say to us they do not have divorce. We note many unhappy marriages or marriages just for the sake of having children.
If you have any question concerning marriage traditions or customs, please leave a comment.

Lastly, we have been here 8 months now, and Azerbaijani friends will ask us if we miss the United States. We always respond that we miss our family and friends. We do get homesick. Recently Linda was working with classes on the national anthem of Azerbaijan. Every student could sing the national anthem, every verse, every word with pride and vigor. Then they asked about the US national anthem. Linda sang the Star Spangled Banner and became very emotional. She tried to explain how much we love our country and family, but words were inadequate. Note: the students have learned the Star Spangled Banner also.
I find myself getting homesick when I read. I will be reading a mystery for entertainment, and there will be a scene in a restaurant or social setting. Sometimes those scenes make me long to be back in the good ol’ U.S.A.

Writing Olympics 2009

There are pictures of the Azerbaijan Writing Olympics in Shirvan. This from the informational mailout:

Highlights

Started in Georgia in 2003 by a PCV to give students the opportunity to express themselves creatively in English
Azerbaijan joined the contest in 2005. 600 Azerbaijani students participated in the 2008 contest
A pilot program for undergraduate students was added in 2007, with 81 Azerbaijani students participating
This year, the competition is national, not Trans-Caucasus. Next year, hopefully, it will once again return to normal

Students are given one hour to write in English on a given topic. These topics are not given in advance and students may not use dictionaries or other resources. Creativity and originality are the primary judging criteria and students are not penalized for grammar or spelling mistakes unless they prevent judges from understanding the essay. There will be regional and national winners. The first place winners will be printed in a small book.

Linda, Denney, and Jessie promoted the Writing Olympics through their Conversation Clubs and Linda’s school. We had 12 participants. Linda and her counterpart conducted the session at the Central Library in Shirvan. Linda and Denney will take the essays to Baku sometime in the near future. The essays from all over Azerbaijan will be compiled and judged. Awards will be given in September at the beginning of the school year.

Linda served on the committee for this year’s competition. The reason for national rather than international competition was the invasion of Georgia by Russian troops last year. When the invasion took place all volunteers were evacuated. The staff stayed intact, and hopefully new trainees will return this June. Without Georgia, the volunteers of Armenia and Azerbaijan thought it best not to compete head to head. Armenia and Azerbaijan are still technically at war, and emotions run very deep.

The participants are given three topics from which to choose. Different topics are assigned for the different grade levels. An example of the topics are:
6th
Would you rather be a dog or a cat? Why?
If I had three wishes, I would wish for…

7th
If you were a superhero, what would your superpower be?
How would your life be different if you were born a boy rather than a girl, or a girl rather than a boy?

8th
What event has made you the most happy?
A good friend is someone who…

9th
What if there was no music?
Who is the person you most admire?

10th
What would happen if women governed the world?
My favorite Azerbaijani tradition is…

11th
What makes a teacher great?
School would be better if…

1st year
Who or what makes you laugh?
What are three things you want to do before you die?

2nd year
What is your favorite book? Describe it.
Write about why you are proud of your country.

3rd year
Who do you think has been the greatest person in history?
Is it better to have a large family or a small family?

4th year
Why do you think people are prejudice?
If you could speak to U.S. President Barack Obama, what would you say?

The other picture is of Denney painting the Library trees. What in the world? Shirvan has many parks and public areas. During the week there are street sweepers and others who work in these public areas. But, we noticed that on Saturdays there seem to be many more people and much younger people working on cleaning parts of the city. Through Conversation Clubs and Library staff we found out that people from different companies and organizations do the cleaning on Saturday.
So, 2 weeks ago Denney showed up and helped the Library’s Saturday staff sweep the area around the library. A great experience. The next week, Denney showed up to do the same, but was asked to go home by the man who directs the cleanup. The Director explained to Denney this week that he did not want Denney sweeping with the women because he was a guest.
I explained to the Director that Linda and I felt that Shirvan is our home. We do not want to be guests, but part of the Shirvan family. If anyone in Shirvan cleans, we want to clean.
Now to explain the painting of the trees, in Shirvan all the public trees are painted for about a meter from the roots. The paint is a whitewash right out of Tom Sawyer. I had seen other people painting the trees. So, I asked the Director instead of sweeping could I paint the trees. Note the man looking on is the foreman of the cleanup crew. The ladies are the cleanup crew, and they all enjoyed seeing Denney paint about 15 trees.

There is a picture of 2 volunteers, from left to right, Jon and Jordyn. They are both TEFL with Jon in Bilasuvar and Jordyn is in Neftjala. They dropped in as they were on their way to a committee meeting in Ujar.

Finally, there is a picture of 4 boys in a Conversation Club playing Concentration. The object is to match Azerbaijan and English words. If they match then the English word is exposed. The team with the most word coverings is the winner.